Who Do You Encourage?

Who do you encourage? In other words who’s your target? I will talk about two ways you will find people to encourage; a chance meeting or divine intervention.

A Chance Meeting is when you encourage a person at the grocery store checkout or your waiter or waitress. What about the manager of the restaurant you just had a meal? They don’t usually get positive feedback and could use some loving too. Many people who need encouragement will cross your path each day. It’s easy to find something you don’t like in someone. Change your point of view and find something to encourage someone about each day. There’s good in all of us, but circumstances have a way of skewing the bias toward the bad.

A Divine Intervention could be anything beyond the chance meeting. Divine intervention is when you’ve been given a soul to testify to and with. It is a soul only you can encourage; for that period of time. Divine intervention gives you the opportunity to change a life. It may have been put in your lap, as a test to see how you’ll handle what you’re given. I’ve found loving the soul is the safest and most effective way to make the world better.

In summary: a Chance Meeting is a way we can encourage the world to be a better place. We reach people during our daily routine. We meet them, then they’re gone. A great way to leave the souls involved in those Chance Meeting is better than you found them. Can you do that? A Divine Intervention is more personal and one on one. It is not the “anyone I might meet” encouragement. Divine Intervention could go so far as saving a life and you may never know. Encourage and love; Love to encourage; and life, and the world becomes a better place within which to live. GB.

Easter Message

This is a great time to celebrate. Today is the day we celebrate the return of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Not only did He return from the dead, but He overcame evil, injustice, hate, contempt, ridicule, slander, pressure, sadness, discomfort, haughtiness, sickness and death. He overcame the last bastion, the final hurdle we have in our life; death. Today is a day to celebrate, for without Jesus resurrection, we’d surely be on the highway headed somewhere we don’t want to go.

Jesus didn’t come to convince us He is right, He came to save us from hell; eternal damnation. He knew what it was like and He knew there was a much better place in store for us if only we believe in Him. He knocks (Rev 3:20 – Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.), but who answers? Anyone there? Come into the light and know where you’ll be when your time on this earth is over.

Join me and my family as we celebrate the resurrection of Jesus as proof there is a greater life to come for all of us. We just need to say yes to Him. Yes to believing in Him. Yes to allowing Him into your heart. Yes to repentance (and if you don’t know how to repent, please let me know). Yes to crucifying your past life and starting anew; something you never dreamed possible. If not today, then when? GB

Good Friday Message

I hope everyone takes time to acknowledge what Jesus did for us on the cross. I know there are those who follow me who don’t “believe”, but that’s OK. We love you too. I don’t like that we’ve become so polarized against one another rather than being understanding, willing to listen and understand so you can be understood. Jesus said he did not come to condemn, but to bring unity and show the way to the Lord. He is the way the truth and the life for us, if we choose to follow Him. He made a huge sacrifice in our stead and for us.

Soon Good Friday will be over and we’ll have our eyes on Easter, but for a few minutes, think about what it was like hanging on the cross, hour after hour. A wooden cross on His back that had been whipped, beaten and parts of his flesh torn away; trying to breath as his back rubbed up and down on a wooden cross. All that for us.

So what can we do for what He did for us? It’s easy to let this day slip by like no other, but there was a great commotion and this was a world changing event. Take a few minutes today to meditate on what Jesus did for us. He did it for you too, if you’d only turn to Him with repentance and hope. GB.

Agenda for LaVern Bitter’s Family

Thursday and Friday – Family arrives. Final arrangements, downtime for the family and small gatherings.

Saturday 10:30 Services for LaVern Bitter at Kingdom Hall 9201 Q St Ralston, NE

Saturday Reception following service at Elks at 96th and Harrison, Ralston, NE

Saturday 6:00p Family gathering at Mike and Ruth’s house, 21747 Martinwood Dr, Council Bluffs, IA. You can Google the address for directions or Google Martinwood International. We have two acres, so when you get to the house, park anywhere on the right (north) side of the house. Feel free to park in the open spaces on the north of the house.

Sunday 10:00a Family gathering and farewell breakfast – Golden Corral, Council Bluffs, IA

NOTES:

  1. The service will be available on Zoom:

Meeting ID: 999 342 0986

Passcode: 2911315

2. It has been chilly at night. For some, that means cold. Bring a coat if you like. Saturday night we will have the firepit burning in case you want to sit outside and enjoy the fire.

3. During this time, feel free to share stories, anecdotes, and things you remember about LaVern and family. He loved family and this is a good time to have family time.

Sometimes Encouragement Hurts

One thing I’ve noticed is sometimes encouragement hurts. What I mean is there are times when you know what’s right for a person, but they don’t see it. The person may be co-dependent on you to take care of everyday life situations for them. In this case, encouragement is not necessarily a niceity.

We know what people should be doing in their life, yet they continue to depend on you to take care of those things for them. Encouragement may seem harsh and not necessary, but how else will they move onto their own path and grow? We have to find ways to encourage them to assume responsibility for their own actions.

This could come in the form of not doing those life things for them and keeping your eyes on your own life, and letting them figure it out. There are other times when awarding someone something they didn’t expect will encourage them to take another chance. Public appreciation goes a long way to encouragement. Ask for the manager at a restaurant you are at and tell them all the good things you saw and how good the food was. Even if not everything was as good as you expect, find things you can compliment the staff.

I have encouraged my children in ways that hurt their feelings or upset them, but the outcome was well worth the pain they went through to accomplish tasks they otherwise would not have accomplished. Encourage someone daily and in no time, the world will be a better place.

Mike. GB

How-To Encourage Daily

In my last post I talked about encouraging daily. This means to encourage someone else each day, but how do you do that? You do it by answering four simple, one word questions; Who, What, When, Where. Here we go.

Who: Anyone. Don’t be shy and when you look at encouraging as an opportunity you will see opportunities abounding. Maybe it’s the check out clerk and you tell them they bagged your items appropriately. Your son, daughter, grandson, granddaughter by telling them they did SOMETHING (anything) good. Thank the trash man for being there to pick up your trash. There are many ways to encourage others.

What: Big or small, anything that is encouraging. Maybe something they are wearing, or a look in their eye. Say something positive about THEM! This is not about you, it’s about them. When you encourage others you will receive blessings and rewards you never imagined.

When: When the opportunity presents itself. After you get the encouragement fever, you will be encouraging people all the time. So start with something small, no matter the time or place, just do it.

Where: Anywhere. You can encourage at a local store, at church, on vacation, anywhere there are people, you’ll find someone needing encouragement. Don’t hold back. You have something they want and it does not cost either of you anything other than time.

Enjoy life and encourage others. Work with them rather than against them.

Encourage Daily

To encourage daily sounds daunting, but it really isn’t. What does it mean to encourage and why don’t more people encourage others? It seems society is more inclined to tell someone they cannot do something rather than encourage them to test their abilities, explore the world around them and find out what THEY are capable of doing. There is a special feeling you get when you help someone accomplish what seemed to be an unattainable task. Try it! Encourage someone today. Encourage just one person. Give it a try; encourage daily.

Fight For Something, Not Against

Many events and attitudes have over taken the values richly engrained in our society, or at least what I thought were engrained in our society. I’ve been at a loss as to what to do to combat these actions of fighting against something rather than fighting for it. I heard a great quote from a martial arts grand master this week. He said to not let our emotions overcome our values. I see so many allowing their emotions to overcome what they truly believe. Find your values and stand on them. Don’t allow them to bend one way or the other when the wind blows, rather stand tall on the values you hold dear.

2024 is The Year to Restore

There is a season for everything and this year, this season is the time to restore.


                                   “2024 is The Year to Restore”


This is a big Christ Theme, but then again, we have a big God. So where do we start when we start to restore and what should we restore?

This year’s theme is not about anyone but you. It’s time to restore some elements of YOUR life. The Christ Theme for this year is about restoring things for you as a person. The first element we need restore is our relationship with God.

If you have a good relationship with God, kick it up a notch and get in a better relationship with Him. This is the year to do it.  There is so much to be had in life when your relationship with your Heavenly Father is good. He made this very promise in 1 Kings when He said:

1 Kings 9:3-5

The Lord said:

“I have heard the prayer and plea you have made before me; I have consecrated this temple, which you have built, by putting my Name there forever. My eyes and my heart will always be there.

 “As for you, if you walk before me faithfully with integrity of heart and uprightness, as David your father did, and do all I command and observe my decrees and laws, I will establish your royal throne over Israel forever, as I promised David your father when I said, ‘You shall never fail to have a successor on the throne of Israel.’

God’s word is for all of us.  It is His guide so we do the right thing.  Study His Word so you know what is expected of you.  You’ll be pleasantly surprised with the blessings He’ll bestow upon you and your family. God’s Word is timeless and cannot be changed.

I can see things happen in those who’ve met the challenge of having a good relationship with God.  And I can see things happen in those people’s lives who haven’t met the challenge, or don’t want to meet the challenge of having a good, or better relationship with God.

The relationship is not so much about you and God, but about doing what God asks you to do.  Most of what He’s asked is in the Bible.  The other times He asks you its because He needs “boots on the ground” to do His work.  You are that person He may ask.  The real question is are you willing to do what God has, and will ask you to do? 

The hard part is letting go of reality to do the work God asks of you.  It is hard stepping out of this world, letting go to see, hear and do what God asks.  This world entices us to stay a part of it.  The world does not want to let go of you long enough for you to have a good solid relationship with God. It’s not hard to be a Christian. 

There is a step by step guide about what you should be doing as a Christian.  It also tells us how to live our lives to align ourselves with Christ.  The guide is the Bible.  The blueprint is there. 

The hard part is letting go of the world we live in long enough to be the Christian Jesus asks us to be.  It does not happen overnight and is something a person has to work at a little bit at a time. 

What I’ve been writing about is why we need to restore our relationship with God, first, then look at restoring, or upgrading; our love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23).  GB

The 2024 Christ Theme

As I sit here getting ready to write I am overcome with emotion about the number of people who want to keep the Martinwood Christian Church Facebook page open.  We have decided to keep the page open and will support it as best as we can.

That’s the first announcement.  The second is the 2024 Christ Theme.  Christ’s theme did not come to us as soon as usual this year.  For the last seven years we’ve announced it at the Christmas Eve Service, but this year was somehow different.  Christ waited until I could understand His Christ theme, not mine.

The Christ Theme for 2024 is

2024; The Season to Restore

2024 is the season to restore hopes.

2024 is the season to restore dreams.

2024 is the season to restore love.

2024 is the season to restore peace.

2024 is the season to restore your health.

2024 is the season to restore your attitude.

It’s the season to restore your relationship with God!

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This year’s theme is based upon Ecclesiastes 3:1-8: there is time for everything, and 2024 is The Season to Restore. 

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

1There is a time for everything,

and a season for every activity under the heavens:

2a time to be born and a time to die,

a time to plant and a time to uproot,

3a time to kill and a time to heal,

a time to tear down and a time to build,

4a time to weep and a time to laugh,

a time to mourn and a time to dance,

5a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,

a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,

6a time to search and a time to give up,

a time to keep and a time to throw away,

7a time to tear and a time to mend,

a time to be silent and a time to speak,

8a time to love and a time to hate,

a time for war and a time for peace.

Look closely at this year’s Christ Theme and you’ll see a pattern.  The pattern involves you, not others.   This is not meant to offend anyone or sound mean, but I did not mention, nor does Ecclesiastes, restoring relationships.  It is intentionally left out because there are some relationships YOU cannot restore.  They will only bring you down.  Christ is the only one who can restore THOSE types of relationships, but we must restore ourselves first!  We cannot restore something we don’t have control over, but we do have control over ourselves and what we can do for us.

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It’s the season to restore hopes and dreams. 

Remember those hopes and dreams you had as a kid.  Remember how much love you had in your teen years and how much you love you had when you got married or had an equally special event happen in your life?

That is what we will restore in 2024.  You will restore you to the person who will reap the benefits of the Lord’s fruits called the Fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.